Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church.
But I'm glad for all the advice I read on this blog. She went ahead a married a non member.
She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. Don't spend money on somebody else' Wife.
I'm on the same page as you. But of course this does not mean that mixed religion children cannot grow up to be LDS stalwarts.