You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife.
Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love.
At what age do you baptize. I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed.
If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. Do you really love him, honey.