We might not always like the way some priesthood holders act, but to disparage the priesthood is not being responsible. Even though we live together, we barely see each other - when he is working nights, we go several days without seeing each other at all he is usually still at work when I head out in the morning, and gone by the time I get back in the evenings.
It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage.
I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him.
Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages. I'm the wife of an intern and we try to make a night each week to go do something, just the two of us.