The ones who already had concerns start questioning.
Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. I learned that going out and having fun with friends every single weekend was not going to be part of our lifestyle together due to time restrictions, tiredness, etc.
It will be up to you, her man, to support the positive expectations. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency.