You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. Some of the most wonderful lesbian sex I've ever had was with a TBM girl.
So far I have found it is a day to day thing. Is it fair for me to ask him to put more time and effort into our relationship.
I have to say that I am a lucky woman. We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended.
I would never convert.